The Cookout

Founded by Tomayia Colvin Education, the Cookout is described as “one part photography conference and one part family cookout.” After attending early this week I would like to add that The Cookout is definitely a way of life!

Since I began my journey as a photographer/entrepreneur/business owner over ten years ago, I have always wanted to be in a space among like minded individuals that have the same passion and drive as me when it comes to my craft. To my knowledge spaces like this didn’t exist. Over time I have seen begin to change, but for the most part I stayed in my own lane out of fear.

Last year I decided to change that so I could meet my own personal goals. Attending this conference was an investment in myself and my business.

I’ve been to other conferences before, but I have always felt like I didn’t fit in.

Not that I’m trying to “fit in” I’ve always been different.

The Cookout isn't like any other. The whole vibe was exhilarating. Honesty, I can’t even put it into words to describe the overall experience. I’m still trying to process it. However, I can say I thoroughly enjoyed being in a space with so many people of color who are all talented, creative, and professional photographers.

Last night as I was reflecting on the sea of knowledge shared, the challenging questions asked, the love shown, and the charge to level up, I thought OMG I shut down. Why did I freeze? I didn't talk to… I didn’t network with… I forgot to take lots of pictures. Then I realized I didn’t freeze at all. I was in learning mode, like the third grade student in me who loved math and just wanted to learn the newest algebraic equation. I was in an environment to learn more about something I almost gave up on.

I’m glad I didn’t give up.

Soloprenuership can be a lonely journey at times. I get it, but in order to grow you have to be intentional with how you plan to grow. For me, I knew I needed to sit at a table where my heart said I belonged. The Cookout is definitely home.

I left this conference reminded of these 4 things: